My Ex Is Harassing Me

[LDG]

I've made two police reports to have it on the record but that really doesn't do anything. I can't file a restraining order because I don't have his address.

He backed off for awhile, going from 10-20 calls and texts a NIGHT to a few a week but he started up again building up to tonight.

I downloaded an app (avast) that blocks his texts and calls but for whatever reason sometimes he gets to my voice mail, which prompts me to check my log make sure it's him then I see his texts.

He's fucking lost it!!! In one text telling me he loves me so much I'll always be his "ANGEL" then a minute later calling me vile names and throwing out outrages scenarios like I'm being a ho or doing drugs all the time and the fucking SHIT TALKING AND NAME CALLING IS HORRIBLE OMG!!!

I have him blocked on my fb but he claims to know what I'm writing. I just took all his family off my fb even though I care about some of them just because I can't know anyone who might be whispering shit in his ear. I love his lil bro and his mom I still talk to via text but I need to rant on there without worrying about who might see it.

I don't want to deal with this shit anymore! He's pathetic! I mean I know it hurts to lose someone you love but it was his choices that led me to make him go and it's been since early May wtf? It's pathetic, he texts me telling me he's crying over me then next second calling me a ho. I didn't realize how much it was affecting me till it stopped and I was SOOO relieved then now it's started again and I don't want to deal with this!!!

Oh and today he called my house phone twice as well. ><

 

[Venom]

I'm sorry to hear this, you should distant yourself from his family for now. Don't answer his calls, and don't worry about the name calling. Let it go in one ear and out the other.

 

[LDG]

I mostly do... let it go in one ear and out the other I know where it's coming from... but it's a huge inconvenience and stress in my life. Thanks for reading me!!

 

[Tooly]

Better make sure you got a lethal weapon handy at all times! If he aint backed off by now, he's srsly screwed!

 

[LDG]

I'm not really worried about a physical threat. He's all talk, plus he's said he's coming over whether I like it or not twice and hasn't, BUT for the record this home is very well protected!

 

[Venom]

I'm not really worried about a physical threat. He's all talk, plus he's said he's coming over whether I like it or not twice and hasn't, BUT for the record this home is very well protected!

You should see my protection! Insane

 

[LDG]

You should see my protection! Insane

 

[killermfkaty]

I'm glad to hear your house is well protected. I'm sorry you're having to deal with that dumbshit.

 

[LDG]

Thanks.. seriously guys thanks for listening had to get this shit OUT!

 

[wino]

you have the right to bear arms and defend yourself. Do it.

 

[LDG]

Yes Sir.

He's left two messages since I wrote this.

 

[Venom]

No need to listen to them just delete, thats what I do when I'm annoyed or the manager at my works wants me to do something, I either say "I lost my phone or I didn't get your message." No need to stress

 

[LDG]

I was doing that but decided to record them with this app I got, more proof of harassment. So I record, delete, and move on. ANNOYING tho.

 

[warriorz]

Dont even give him 1% of attention.. tbh he is just joking around and having fun with you, he knows you'll get paranoid and is making a fool out of you.. Just put your cell on Flight mode and relax..just dont react...hope everything is fine. I can try bombing him with messages just for lulz if u want.

Sent from your mother's bedroom...

 

[LDG]

Dont even give him 1% of attention.. tbh he is just joking around and having fun with you, he knows you'll get paranoid and is making a fool out of you.. Just put your cell on Flight mode and relax..just dont react...hope everything is fine. I can try bombing him with messages just for lulz if u want.

Sent from your mother's bedroom...

No, he's not joking or having fun with me or to me or at me, he's dead serious and an emotional wreck, fucking psycho going from "woe is me I lost my love" to" fuck her she left me that bitch!"

But the rest of what you said I agree with, I need to not respond because no matter the motivation he IS looking for a reaction of any kind at this point.

And I am a lot of things, mad, annoyed, upset, but paranoid? No... I don't even consider him a physical threat at all.

 

[D.N.R.]

You should change your phone number.

 

[LDG]

I might but, 1- I shouldn't have to, and the sense of him controlling me by making me do that enrages me. 2- We have two lines on our home phone that would have to be changed too and 3- we do have a few friends we both talk to and all it takes is one person... "oh sure I'll give you her new number" in one momentary lapse of reason ya know?

Maybe it's stupid but as I said, the sense of violation and of him in control of me by making me do something I don't want to do enrages me.



I'm considering it though. As I said we'd also have to change two other numbers as well. *sigh* Today when I didn't answer my cell, (I was napping and it was blocking his calls anyway but he did get to my voicemail) when I woke up I checked our house phone and he'd called that twice.

 

[warriorz]

I might but, 1- I shouldn't have to, and the sense of him controlling me by making me do that enrages me. 2- We have two lines on our home phone that would have to be changed too and 3- we do have a few friends we both talk to and all it takes is one person... "oh sure I'll give you her new number" in one momentary lapse of reason ya know?

Maybe it's stupid but as I said, the sense of violation and of him in control of me by making me do something I don't want to do enrages me.



I'm considering it though. As I said we'd also have to change two other numbers as well. *sigh* Today when I didn't answer my cell, (I was napping and it was blocking his calls anyway but he did get to my voicemail) when I woke up I checked our house phone and he'd called that twice.

Become a ninja and vanish...

 

[LDG]

Become a ninja and vanish...

 

[Tooly]

I'm not really worried about a physical threat. He's all talk, plus he's said he's coming over whether I like it or not twice and hasn't, BUT for the record this home is very well protected!

I'm glad to hear that!