There are certain individuals who have no business being a therapist/counselor. The fact this person physically touched
you without permission is not only cringe-worthy but also probably an ethics violation and definitely a boundary issue.
Therapists are there to help you so you can help yourself, not berate you because you disagree with them. Having been in therapy off and during my childhood up until now, I've come across a few unethical and unprofessional people.
Thst is just so very sad that you've had that happen to you!! These are supposed to be professional people who we turn to when we are extremely vulnerable and for any of them to betray that trust is one of the very worst things that can happen! š¢