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Real reason Gen Z can’t cope with life

(from article)

Gen Z cops a lot of flack for being snowflakes – and they are.

Many of them can’t cope with life. Any speech or idea they don’t like is offensive, criticism is insulting – and they can’t hold down a job.

It’s not entirely their fault, though.

A large part of it is the way they’ve been raised and educated.

This masthead reported earlier in the week that, according to an industry survey, three quarters of American companies have been unhappy with their Gen Z employees and 60 per cent were sacking newly appointed university graduates within a year.

The biggest complaints were that young workers were unprepared, unwilling to complete a full work day, wanted to start late and could not communicate properly.

The Daily Mail also quoted recruiter Tammie Christofis Ballis, who said young people were now suffering from “interview anxiety”, including being afraid to pick up the phone to a potential employer and even taking their parents along as moral support in interviews.

That doesn’t just happen in a vacuum.

Mental health has far more care and awareness than it did a few decades ago – and rightly so – but the pendulum has swung so far that any kind of uncomfortable experience is a major issue.
Kids are no longer taught resilience and are stripped of all responsibility.

There is no danger in life. All the fun equipment has been ripped out of playgrounds out of fear that a child might hurt himself or break an arm.

They aren’t trusted to leave on their bikes in the morning with mates and return when the sun comes down – they must be in sight at all times.

And when they are out of sight, they’re now often tracked via an electronic device.

Those devices have become a poison – enslaving kids to a digital world instead of the real one.

Is it any wonder they can’t communicate properly when a large portion of their interactions are no longer verbal or face-to-face?

The concept of winning and losing has been dispensed of in favour of everyone receiving a participation medal.

Junior sporting leagues no longer keep scores or ladders. There are no finals – just the “fun” of having participated.

But that’s not the real world. There must, in all facets of life, be winners and losers.

Sometimes you succeed and sometimes you fail. But if you don’t learn how to deal with that at a young age, then of course it will seem like the end of the world when you’re a young adult.

Winning in your football competition or the school sports day teaches that effort and hard work are virtues.

It also teaches sportsmanship and how to appropriately handle success.

Losing demonstrates that you can’t succeed all the time and how to handle the sadness of failure.

Moving out of your parents’ home at 18 was once a right of passage – now it’s a daunting proposition.

My grandfather left school at 14 to become an apprentice butcher, which wasn’t uncommon in his day, in part to support his family.

I’m not suggesting that children should be yanked out of school and sent to work full time, but it certainly instilled a sense of responsibility that is lacking today.

The process of developing responsibility – be it for yourself, a property, a job or a family – has been delayed.

Far too many school leavers go to university to study degrees in which they have little interest because they’ve been told it’s the right thing to do, thus delaying their development even further.

So is it any wonder that Gen Z can’t hack it in the workplace?

They’ve been patted on their backs their whole childhoods, told that they’ve done a good job no matter what, holed up in their bedrooms staring at screens – and now the idea of applying for or holding down a job seems impossible.

Young people aren’t inherently lazy, but they have been raised in a world that encourages laziness and mediocrity.


 
Gen Z cops a lot of flack for being snowflakes – and they are.

Many of them can’t cope with life. Any speech or idea they don’t like is offensive, criticism is insulting – and they can’t hold down a job.

It’s not entirely their fault, though.

A large part of it is the way they’ve been raised and educated.

This masthead reported earlier in the week that, according to an industry survey, three quarters of American companies have been unhappy with their Gen Z employees and 60 per cent were sacking newly appointed university graduates within a year.

The biggest complaints were that young workers were unprepared, unwilling to complete a full work day, wanted to start late and could not communicate properly.

The Daily Mail also quoted recruiter Tammie Christofis Ballis, who said young people were now suffering from “interview anxiety”, including being afraid to pick up the phone to a potential employer and even taking their parents along as moral support in interviews.

That doesn’t just happen in a vacuum.

Mental health has far more care and awareness than it did a few decades ago – and rightly so – but the pendulum has swung so far that any kind of uncomfortable experience is a major issue.
Kids are no longer taught resilience and are stripped of all responsibility.

There is no danger in life. All the fun equipment has been ripped out of playgrounds out of fear that a child might hurt himself or break an arm.

They aren’t trusted to leave on their bikes in the morning with mates and return when the sun comes down – they must be in sight at all times.

And when they are out of sight, they’re now often tracked via an electronic device.

Those devices have become a poison – enslaving kids to a digital world instead of the real one.

Is it any wonder they can’t communicate properly when a large portion of their interactions are no longer verbal or face-to-face?

The concept of winning and losing has been dispensed of in favour of everyone receiving a participation medal.

Junior sporting leagues no longer keep scores or ladders. There are no finals – just the “fun” of having participated.

But that’s not the real world. There must, in all facets of life, be winners and losers.

Sometimes you succeed and sometimes you fail. But if you don’t learn how to deal with that at a young age, then of course it will seem like the end of the world when you’re a young adult.

Winning in your football competition or the school sports day teaches that effort and hard work are virtues.

It also teaches sportsmanship and how to appropriately handle success.

Losing demonstrates that you can’t succeed all the time and how to handle the sadness of failure.

Moving out of your parents’ home at 18 was once a right of passage – now it’s a daunting proposition.

My grandfather left school at 14 to become an apprentice butcher, which wasn’t uncommon in his day, in part to support his family.

I’m not suggesting that children should be yanked out of school and sent to work full time, but it certainly instilled a sense of responsibility that is lacking today.

The process of developing responsibility – be it for yourself, a property, a job or a family – has been delayed.

Far too many school leavers go to university to study degrees in which they have little interest because they’ve been told it’s the right thing to do, thus delaying their development even further.

So is it any wonder that Gen Z can’t hack it in the workplace?

They’ve been patted on their backs their whole childhoods, told that they’ve done a good job no matter what, holed up in their bedrooms staring at screens – and now the idea of applying for or holding down a job seems impossible.

Young people aren’t inherently lazy, but they have been raised in a world that encourages laziness and mediocrity.

You got that right…👍
 
As a 'Zoomer', yeah.

I can't speak for everyone but the possibility of failure made tasks so daunting. Things like applying for jobs, studying, making connections, felt way too hard simply because there wouldn't be a point if I failed. Or worse, if I was mediocre. It becomes way easier to relax and fall back on 'Mental Health' protocols, rather than facing your issues head to head. I used to do that too, skipping class just to sit in a room with 'running water sounds' because I couldn't handle it for the life of me.

But perspectives change with time (and also real people to pull you up by the bootstraps, thank fuck for my older brother.) And I'm sure that once the rest of Gen Z matures, we'll be alright. It'll just take longer than previous generations probably.
 
Anyone who tries to put me in a camp is getting shot. 😂🤘🏻I’ll die free before I’m “re-educated”.
No problem. A hole is cheaper than re-education.

George Carlin talked about this often during his shows a generation ago in the 90's. This is from his last HBO Special in '08.


George Carlin was a loudmouth faggot.
 
I work with a Gen Z and he is very depressed. Everything he was striving to become has been replaced by AI and now he has abandoned his studies.

Even when he was still doing his schoolwork he would tell me it was pointless. Everyone would apparently get straight-A's regardless of how hard they tried because they all used AI to do their work for them - and the AI was always better than anything they did on their own.

He realized he had no purpose and dropped out of his university. Ironically he is one of the smartest people I work with. But he has no confidence in himself. He is always glum.

I can see why he is sad because so much has changed for him in so short a time. Imagine starting school writing your own essays and then half way through AI is launched that can write better than you and students that use it don't need to try hard and get better grades than you do - so then you start using it too. But all this does is ruin your ability to think and saps your creativity and motivation. 🤷‍♀️

I was reading a magazine yesterday and noticed many of the advertisements were now AI generated imagines and couldn't help but wonder how many of the articles were also AI generated. This is the reason Gen Z is depressed I think. They were the generation that wanted to make a difference but it was taken from them halfway through. They were pushed aside by AI. We older Millenials already found our place before the AI came along. Most of us aren't as affected because we have seniority in our workplaces and our pay is already at a level that can sustain us, for the most part, in this dog shit economy where a burger is $10+. Imagine being Gen Z and getting your first job and your starting pay is enough to buy one McDonalds cheeseburger per hour. You have $50,000 in student loans incurring record high interest. You can't buy a home or even a car because you can't afford a down payment. You lived 3 years in your parent's house on Zoom and adults told you breathing the air around others without a surgical mask on could kill you. Your social skills are stunted. Feel bad for these kids and help them whenever you can.
 
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I'm Gen X. The only real personal contact I've had with Gen Z creatures is at work. They have been, without exception in my experience, addle-brained, zero-attention-span wastoids who contribute nothing and lower the morale of people who actually contribute. They care more about their pronouns than they do their accomplishments at work.

The worst one still gives me fits to think about. She was in marketing supposedly but she spent much of her day flirting with men in various other departments. I always dreaded her appearances in our dept because we had an open floor plan and I had to listen to her inane drivel.

These are some of the things she talked about (no kidding or exaggeration): Intentionally melting a Barbie doll in a microwave oven; what astrology signs people's pets were; her dog's psychic communications with her; how many office and kitchen supplies she had stolen and how she deserved them because her pay was low (they are always bitching about their low pay! Start on the bottom and pay your dues!!).

Among other things, the fucking bitch made off with an entire giant container of Keurig hazelnut flavor, which was my favorite, and it wasn't resupplied for weeks 😠. The punchline is, she didn't have a Keurig at home, or any coffeemaker that could use the K-cups.

When she was finally fired, I was so relieved. And I was interested to hear my male coworkers (i.e., everyone else in the dept) celebrating her departure. I'd thought they enjoyed the daily doses of 23-year-old T&A. But no. It wasn't worth it to them to have to listen to her. Men are fucking shallow. It generally takes a lot for them to pass on an attractive young thing leaning over their desks. That is how horrifying the Gen Z personality and "mind" is; it overrides serious boobage!

Yeah, yeah, probably not all Gen Z's are this worthless. Maybe Theseus is a unicorn who has an attention span and a work ethic. But I have yet to see those qualities in this generation.
 
man all i can say is im glad i raised my kids the way i did and beat their asses when they needed it and did the soap or tobasco sauce thing too. glad my kids had me in their phone as "hitler" and not dad. im also glad when they didnt get their way,they said they hated me. because i was doing my job.
were all good friends, now that theyre adults. 2 of the 3 boys went military and are doing very well now in their civilian jobs. the other works for the town. makes good money as a boss. my youngest (daughter) is in the dental field. also, making good money. they too,complain about some of their friends and their co workers and how theyre lazy and lets just say, "moody" as my youngests say. govt dictates curriculum your child learns and rules in the schools.
and things always change.
but society created this problem that we have today, with gen z'rz. the govt also helped create this problem we have with them also.
society says if you spank your kid (because they fucked up) its considered child abuse. but them same fucking karens and kevins would be the first to say your kid is this and is that and wasnt raised properly. how about you shut the fuck up and mind your own business on how i raise my kids!
you sit your kid down,and tell timmy not to do that agan and go for a time out for 2 minutes. while timmy is used to confinement,he becomes one of those kids who grows to be what the article is talking about,or a jail bird. theres no talking to the kid. no time out. the kid fucked up,he gets whats coming to him. theres no reasoning with children. theres demands and lectures grounding swats with let it be the belt,hand,switch or whatever and theres also (my favorite) the soap across the teeth.
does it sound like i was a prick? maybe to some of you and maybe not. but i dont care. if i did,i wouldnt have told you. but have ANY of my kids gotten out of line as teens? yes they tested their boundaries. ever arrested for anything? nope (not yet. but its on them now). we raised our kids with the knowledge that their actions (let it be big or small or pointless) have consequences. everything is a domino effect. and because i did it how i did,the older 2 boys have thanked me for being a prick. were they afraid of me? maybe. but when they were children. but now they respect me.
look you in the eye and give you a firm handshake. because thats how i raised them!
 
I feel sorry for Gen Z in many ways. Their brains have not had the environment required for adequate development, based on the millions of years of mammalian evolution taken to create the human brain. As far as I am aware, Facebook wasn’t around 200,000 years ago 😂.

Kids need to experience pain, hardship and difficulty and then be shown ways of managing the situation by calm primary caregivers. Hardship is a natural aspect of all living things. But kids these days are bubble-wrapped and thus can’t develop the neurological systems for dealing with the real world. Society has a responsibility to change things as a whole. Like letting kids play fight in school, or break their ankle in a playground. There’s no wonder self/harm is increasing. The brain is in need of some pain to manage.

For a laugh, a couple of Gen Z presenting messages I had at work late last night…

“Started coughing 10 minutes ago”

“Vaginal bleeding” it was a normal period (In an actual woman)

“Rotten egg burps”
 
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As a 'Zoomer', yeah.

I can't speak for everyone but the possibility of failure made tasks so daunting. Things like applying for jobs, studying, making connections, felt way too hard simply because there wouldn't be a point if I failed. Or worse, if I was mediocre. It becomes way easier to relax and fall back on 'Mental Health' protocols, rather than facing your issues head to head. I used to do that too, skipping class just to sit in a room with 'running water sounds' because I couldn't handle it for the life of me.

But perspectives change with time (and also real people to pull you up by the bootstraps, thank fuck for my older brother.) And I'm sure that once the rest of Gen Z matures, we'll be alright. It'll just take longer than previous generations probably.
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Law of Diminshing Returns. Back in the 1800s, one was entitled to 100+ acres of land (millions of dollars in todays value), if they wanted it. Fast forward today, and a couple $1,000 covid checks send to every american made everything unaffordable. The Law of Diminishing Returns applies to every aspect of society: less jobs to go around, less house to buy, less available land, more competition, more laws, less freedom, less discoveries, larger wealth gap...list goes on, the idea of constant growth is fundamentally flawed. Generation Z is brave, as they realize the current system is enslavement and dont want to partake. I am a millenial and own a business by the way, just see through all matrix bullshit.

I work with a Gen Z and he is very depressed. Everything he was striving to become has been replaced by AI and now he has abandoned his studies.

Even when he was still doing his schoolwork he would tell me it was pointless. Everyone would apparently get straight-A's regardless of how hard they tried because they all used AI to do their work for them - and the AI was always better than anything they did on their own.

He realized he had no purpose and dropped out of his university. Ironically he is one of the smartest people I work with. But he has no confidence in himself. He is always glum.

I can see why he is sad because so much has changed for him in so short a time. Imagine starting school writing your own essays and then half way through AI is launched that can write better than you and students that use it don't need to try hard and get better grades than you do - so then you start using it too. But all this does is ruin your ability to think and saps your creativity and motivation. 🤷‍♀️

I was reading a magazine yesterday and noticed many of the advertisements were now AI generated imagines and couldn't help but wonder how many of the articles were also AI generated. This is the reason Gen Z is depressed I think. They were the generation that wanted to make a difference but it was taken from them halfway through. They were pushed aside by AI. We older Millenials already found our place before the AI came along. Most of us aren't as affected because we have seniority in our workplaces and our pay is already at a level that can sustain us, for the most part, in this dog shit economy where a burger is $10+. Imagine being Gen Z and getting your first job and your starting pay is enough to buy one McDonalds cheeseburger per hour. You have $50,000 in student loans incurring record high interest. You can't buy a home or even a car because you can't afford a down payment. You lived 3 years in your parent's house on Zoom and adults told you breathing the air around others without a surgical mask on could kill you. Your social skills are stunted. Feel bad for these kids and help them whenever you can.
Yes , they have a handicap to overcome that previous generations didnt have
 
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