Can anyone help me understand?

[Amalgamation]

I like how Bad Homo makes a scene and it's much less offensive than the above one-liner.

 

[mrln]

post pictures of their corpses. its been a while since ive had a family wank.

sheeesh bro. that was harsh......


@Boondocks Gussie that shit sucks,but its only one month. not like its dragged out all year. kinda get it over with at once,so to speak. if that helps...

 

[lechmich]

The chances that 3 of your loved ones die in the same month is about 1 in 2000 which is not implausible. The way I look at people close to me passing is the fact that I was lucky enough to have to have known and loved them for as long as I did, and many others did not. You keep those memories

 

[kaijucore]

I’m sorry for your losses, I’m sure the dates are just coincidence. I know what it’s like to have months that inherently seem scary because bad things have happened in them before, but that doesn’t mean they’ll happen again. I hope you have many happy Mays ahead of you lovely

 

[Tarantino6661989]

All Power and Love for you ...you are Not alone ....and...you will see everyone again ...Just wait 🫡

 

[Guipago]

That sucks! Maybe having those timings prepares you a bit better?

 

[Clendenon]

It seems like perhaps you're focusing on the fact these occur around May.

My family has experienced lots of loss in August and September, so my mom and her sisters view that period of the year in a similar light to what you're experiencing.

It's simply unfortunate.

December is my "death" month.

Hi, in May of 2019, I Lost my wonderful Father in Law. May of 2022, I lost me beloved Husband after 20 years. We lost our Son this year in, you guessed it, May 2024, and a mere 48 hours later, my Beloved's Brother passed away. I've been fucked in the head over it and feel like I lost almost everything I loved when I ain't hardly known no love until I met my Beloved. The Dates.... the freak me out and I was wondering if anyone can help me make sense a it? Please and thank you.

Sorry for your lost but the dates are not that improbable. Read about the "birthday paradox".

 

[District99]

You gotta find a WAY to defeat MAY, in your head of course

Hang in there!

 

[Bad Hippo]

I like how Bad Homo makes a scene and it's much less offensive than the above one-liner.

The thing is Epicanus, is that I like to wind people up. It's as simple as that.

 

[Jenny]

The thing is Epicanus, is that I like to wind people up. It's as simple as that.

Lol. You do. You enjoy being that asshole, the one that people get upset with over what meme he posts. 😂
You're like an evil fookin' leprechaun rather than a hippo.

OP just needs to realize that time is a construct & the fact more than a couple of their loved ones died during the same season is just coincidence. It's not like they all simultaneously dropped dead on the same exact day with there seemingly being zero connection. That would be too weird not to think there was.

 

[Graziani]

sheeesh bro. that was harsh......


@Boondocks Gussie that shit sucks,but its only one month. not like its dragged out all year. kinda get it over with at once,so to speak. if that helps...

Time cures everything

 

[Bad Hippo]

Time cures everything

No. death cures everything.

 

[Pensacola333]

Hi, in May of 2019, I Lost my wonderful Father in Law. May of 2022, I lost me beloved Husband after 20 years. We lost our Son this year in, you guessed it, May 2024, and a mere 48 hours later, my Beloved's Brother passed away. I've been fucked in the head over it and feel like I lost almost everything I loved when I ain't hardly known no love until I met my Beloved. The Dates.... the freak me out and I was wondering if anyone can help me make sense a it? Please and thank you.

This is the wrong site to seek any kind words....people here are SERIOUSLY deficient in empathy. Most of them are sadists.

Anyway....this is what I do in tragedy ( and I have had my share! ) : Look over at Ukraine. Those people are losing their fathers and brothers to war. And having them killed by the same. Then their houses are bombed daily. Electric and heating goes out constantly. This winter they just might freeze. And now the Russian army is approaching from the East. This is the life of Ukrainians in the Donbass territory and Kharkiv. We can be grateful that at least we are not enduring war and an approaching enemy army. I hope these words helped you at least a little bit. Also... go to church. The Christians there will be a good support group for you and the hymns and sermons just might help you. God Himself is there for you. Lastly...read the entire book of Job in the Bible. It is a true story about a very good man who endured the worst things anybody has ever endured. And he never cursed God but praised God at all times through the ordeal.

This is the wrong site to seek any kind words....people here are SERIOUSLY deficient in empathy. Most of them are sadists.

Anyway....this is what I do in tragedy ( and I have had my share! ) : Look over at Ukraine. Those people are losing their fathers and brothers to war. And having them killed by the same. Then their houses are bombed daily. Electric and heating goes out constantly. This winter they just might freeze. And now the Russian army is approaching from the East. This is the life of Ukrainians in the Donbass territory and Kharkiv. We can be grateful that at least we are not enduring war and an approaching enemy army. I hope these words helped you at least a little bit. Also... go to church. The Christians there will be a good support group for you and the hymns and sermons just might help you. God Himself is there for you. Lastly...read the entire book of Job in the Bible. It is a true story about a very good man who endured the worst things anybody has ever endured. And he never cursed God but praised God at all times through the ordeal.

( Oops...I see now that YOU ARE from Ukraine! Sorry. I assume your husband was lost in battle. I am so sorry. Don't give up. You can meet another man. You are a pretty woman. Keep your head up. )

 

[Graziani]

No. death cures everything.

Death ends everything

 

[Bad Hippo]

Death ends everything

Time has done nothing to stop the animosity between the Scots and the English, the French and the Germans, America and Russia, or Jews and Muslims.
So, time does not heal anything. It only delays the inevitable.

You can meet another man. You are a pretty woman.

Typical chauvinist attitude: that women need a man to be happy, and they only deserve a man if they are pretty.
Totally overlooks the concepts of love, soul-mates, or even relationships in general.
How to talk down to a woman...

 

[Jenny]

This is the wrong site to seek any kind words....people here are SERIOUSLY deficient in empathy. Most of them are sadists.

Anyway....this is what I do in tragedy ( and I have had my share! ) : Look over at Ukraine. Those people are losing their fathers and brothers to war. And having them killed by the same. Then their houses are bombed daily. Electric and heating goes out constantly. This winter they just might freeze. And now the Russian army is approaching from the East. This is the life of Ukrainians in the Donbass territory and Kharkiv. We can be grateful that at least we are not enduring war and an approaching enemy army. I hope these words helped you at least a little bit. Also... go to church. The Christians there will be a good support group for you and the hymns and sermons just might help you. God Himself is there for you. Lastly...read the entire book of Job in the Bible. It is a true story about a very good man who endured the worst things anybody has ever endured. And he never cursed God but praised God at all times through the ordeal.


( Oops...I see now that YOU ARE from Ukraine! Sorry. I assume your husband was lost in battle. I am so sorry. Don't give up. You can meet another man. You are a pretty woman. Keep your head up. )

You don't sound like a sadist & you're here on this site too. 😉

 

[Fact21]

Hi, in May of 2019, I Lost my wonderful Father in Law. May of 2022, I lost me beloved Husband after 20 years. We lost our Son this year in, you guessed it, May 2024, and a mere 48 hours later, my Beloved's Brother passed away. I've been fucked in the head over it and feel like I lost almost everything I loved when I ain't hardly known no love until I met my Beloved. The Dates.... the freak me out and I was wondering if anyone can help me make sense a it? Please and thank you.

Wow……one thing I know for a fact is, time heals heartache and pain. Every day it will be a little bit easier and once your head starts to clear, you will answer your own questions.