Can anyone help me understand?

[Torta Gordita]

Hi, in May of 2019, I Lost my wonderful Father in Law. May of 2022, I lost me beloved Husband after 20 years. We lost our Son this year in, you guessed it, May 2024, and a mere 48 hours later, my Beloved's Brother passed away. I've been fucked in the head over it and feel like I lost almost everything I loved when I ain't hardly known no love until I met my Beloved. The Dates.... the freak me out and I was wondering if anyone can help me make sense a it? Please and thank you.

 

[Sabu]

I honestly can't make sense of it for ya. But I'm extremely sorry for the ones you lost. Stay up.

 

[Alkamancito]

MAY your loved ones rest in peace.

 

[Dark_Voyeur]

The human mind looks for, and notes patterns.

I myself can see there is no real pattern beyond coincidence, but take your time with that.

 

[Fäthër Cörpsë]

What can I give Him
Poor as I am?
If I were a shepherd, I would give a lamb
If I were a wise man, I would do my part
Yet what I can, I give Him
Give my heart

you honor them with memories and love. Sometimes that is all we can do, and it’s enough.

 

[DokraOwl]

I lost 4 loved ones in the last 14 months. Funny how we can live decades without ever encountering death and then suddenly be surrounded by it. And then you realise there is nothing special about you, the fact that you're still alive is just a coincidence, and death can take you for whatever reason at any time just as it did your loved ones. You could have cancer right now or some undiagnosed disease and just don't know it. Your heart could be about to fail. We all would like to imagine our time to die is in some distant future and yet we never think it may be this year, this month, tomorrow, or in the next few moments this very day.

Drive for hours in your car trying to make sense of the world, contemplating your place in it, realizing that everything you thought was so serious for so long isn't important.

And then to see the wives of dead husbands, the children of dead fathers, people who are now alone after years of being together, and you see the grief soon fade almost as quickly as the memories. The memories of the past become forgotten more and more until one day, it's as if they never existed at all... and life goes on without them.

 

[Bad Hippo]

 

[Amalgamation]

It seems like perhaps you're focusing on the fact these occur around May.

My family has experienced lots of loss in August and September, so my mom and her sisters view that period of the year in a similar light to what you're experiencing.

It's simply unfortunate.

 

[LittleSilIy]

I can’t even imagine how heavy this must feel, facing so much loss and all in the same month over the years. It’s no wonder the dates would leave you feeling unsettled and looking for answers it’s a lot for anyone to take in.

Sometimes these patterns can make grief feel even more intense, like there’s something bigger behind them, even if life doesn’t always make sense of it.

I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure this series of heartbreaking losses, @Boondocks Gussie *hugs

Grief is like the ocean—it comes in waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim. – Vicki H

 

[Gone crazy back soon]

My family prefers to pass away in the spring too. I don't think there is any rhyme or reason to it it's just the way it went down. I'm sorry for your losses I know it's a lot to take.

 

[Prince 👑 Harming]

I lost 4 loved ones in the last 14 months. Funny how we can live decades without ever encountering death and then suddenly be surrounded by it. And then you realise there is nothing special about you, the fact that you're still alive is just a coincidence, and death can take you for whatever reason at any time just as it did your loved ones. You could have cancer right now or some undiagnosed disease and just don't know it. Your heart could be about to fail. We all would like to imagine our time to die is in some distant future and yet we never think it may be this year, this month, tomorrow, or in the next few moments this very day.

Drive for hours in your car trying to make sense of the world, contemplating your place in it, realizing that everything you thought was so serious for so long isn't important.

And then to see the wives of dead husbands, the children of dead fathers, people who are now alone after years of being together, and you see the grief soon fade almost as quickly as the memories. The memories of the past become forgotten more and more until one day, it's as if they never existed at all... and life goes on without them.

ill miss you when you're gone 😐

 

[Jenny]

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Really? Man, you are absolutely terrible sometimes. 😤
Did you know it's totally okay to say nothing at all too? She's obviously been cursed by a death witch she pissed off in the past, one who prayed to the flower moon. 😬

 

[Andy.]

Really? Man, you are absolutely terrible sometimes. 😤
Did you know it's totally okay to say nothing at all too?

100%

 

[ReallyJess]

Hello? It's me: Hippo. I'm a bad hippo.
Okay to say nothing at all? Maybe in other dimensions, but in this one - if I have an opinion, I will share it.

Death happens. Shit happens. Why is one of more importance than the other?


100% what? Agree? Disagree? Or are you wanting a participation medal because you can string 3 numbers together in a row? Dickhead.

moar MOAR

 

[Prince 👑 Harming]

the hippo is right ... fish for empathy on FB ... we celebrate death and lifes cruel tragedies here ... let us all be splattered to smithereens by a giant dildo that falls from the sky and God willing it's all captured on film for others to enjoy for eternity

 

[PurrGirl]

For my family, it's October. After my mom lost her best friend, her mother, and then my father, all in October in different years, she became convinced that she too would die in October.

I don't think there should be any logical reason for it, but honestly I still breathed easier this year when November 1st rolled around.

My Condolences on your losses. 😥

 

[djdeeds]

Maybe it's a strange blessing that my entire family are fucking assholes that always hated me. It means I don't need to experience the loss and grief most others do if they somehow hopefully die soon.

 

[Bad Hippo]

Maybe it's a strange blessing that my entire family are fucking assholes that always hated me. It means I don't need to experience the loss and grief most others do if they somehow hopefully die soon.

I'm in the same boat. Relatives are a nightmare at the best of times. You can pick your friends, but not your family. Doesn't mean you have to put up with those cunts, just because you happened to be born into that family.

 

[Jenny]

Hello? It's me: Hippo. I'm a bad hippo.
Okay to say nothing at all? Maybe in other dimensions, but in this one - if I have an opinion, I will share it.

Death happens. Shit happens. Why is one of more importance than the other?


100% what? Agree? Disagree? Or are you wanting a participation medal because you can string 3 numbers together in a row? Dickhead.

Why are you always on your period?

 

[Interregnum]

post pictures of their corpses