Any guy who would date a woman young enough to be his daughter has major issues. As a male, I can understand the "temptation" to a degree. I live in a college town and most of the bar/club scenes are full of youth. At 38, I definitely felt like Wooderson from dazed and confused at times. It can be a struggle at times to turn away a young and attractive woman, especially after a few drinks but it's possible. The 35 year old man knew better. No excuse...What a fucking dweeb.
I was naive enough to be with someone who was 35 at the time. I was 17. It was an absolute shitshow of a relationship. Constant put downs, control and zero fucking boundaries. Men like this are absolute creeps 🤮