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Question for you all

Same boat, good decision I say; slightly less stress
Kids just compound everything and then you also have to facilitate a relationship and thats something I also have never been interested in. If you don't stay in the relationship then you get over half your check taken for child support. Just a huge mess all around, kudos to all the fathers out there for doing something I could never tho.
 
Kids just compound everything and then you also have to facilitate a relationship and thats something I also have never been interested in. If you don't stay in the relationship then you get over half your check taken for child support. Just a huge mess all around, kudos to all the fathers out there for doing something I could never tho.
Absolutely agree, life's hard enough without half my money being taken
 
Absolutely agree, life's hard enough without half my money being taken
Yeah, I mean that's not my sole reason because money isn't everything but, a good one to add to the list.

Not pull it out and fire it all up her back?
You said ready set aim and fire huh? 🀣

It's better form to spray it onto the face, I believe; chivalry.
Apparently it's good for the skin, I used to occasionally hook up with a girl who asked for it then should rub it in, wear that shit like a facemask. A bit odd if you ask me but I don't judge.
 
I’ve got lots of kids some biological some not but they are the most fulfilling way to spend your time. All the good in me I give to my children, the worst in me I save for you fucks. But no, no regrets children are why you live to pass on parts of yourself. They are awesome if you raise em right.
 
Have any of you rethought/regretted having children due to the things you have seen here?

I personally wouldn't have had children regardless due to not wanting them and not believing that I would be able to raise them correctly because of being raised pretty shitty myself and it's unfair to pass that on to others, but my thoughts on having kids have certainly been cemented by all the shit I see on here. It just seems ridiculous to even consider having kids and placing them in a world full of these people.
I’d consider adopting but never having my own.
 
I’ve got lots of kids some biological some not but they are the most fulfilling way to spend your time. All the good in me I give to my children, the worst in me I save for you fucks. But no, no regrets children are why you live to pass on parts of yourself. They are awesome if you raise em right.
I'm happy for you, hope you and the family are doing well bro

I’d consider adopting but never having my own.
Why's that? If you don't mind my asking
 
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For a few years I dated someone who I could have sworn was my soul mate and felt a longing to create a family with this woman. These were feelings that I had for the first time in my life and wanted this regardless of the horrors and hardships of life. They were almost primal, it seemed. Long story short, its metamorphosis became hearth ache and heart break, and boy, what a road that was to travel...
 
I don't have any but I do babysit my mates kids and they have confirmed that I definitely have no regrets on not having my own.
I do see what you are saying about the future though, its bad enough being an honorary uncle sometimes.
You and me, we are old, we can make one old baby white hair
 
Have any of you rethought/regretted having children due to the things you have seen here?

I personally wouldn't have had children regardless due to not wanting them and not believing that I would be able to raise them correctly because of being raised pretty shitty myself and it's unfair to pass that on to others, but my thoughts on having kids have certainly been cemented by all the shit I see on here. It just seems ridiculous to even consider having kids and placing them in a world full of these people.
My husband and I are kid free indefinitely
 
You and me, we are old, we can make one old baby white hair
Look graz I have no idea how many times I've told you I'm a dude in 3 years but, even if you still don't believe me let me put it this way....
Even if I was Jessica Fletcher and willing to fly myself to Brazil as well as almost overdose on vagisil gel for your Indecent Proposal,
My uterus has been inconceivable for many many years and on top of all that I'm dead now bro?
 
As challenging as it was to raise my kids, I wouldn't change it or them for the world. One was fairly easy all things told, one gave me a run for my money.

Do I worry for their futures and my grandkids futures in this chaos we're in, absolutely. I think about it quite alot, tbh. I'll not be around when they both get to the age I am right now. Them struggling for basic freedoms scares the hell out of me. Where we stand now in this country scares the hell outta me, truth be told.
 
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