I'll start with this... people shouldn't idolize celebrities. Building a personal relationship with an influencer you've never met is just weird to begin with, so yes, anyone who is offended by a video online, or a post is soft in my eyes.
That being said, that's a weird analogy to use. Look at the type of person you're making yourself out to be. Making fun of kirk dying, his wife, or the situation in general, is pretty lame. It's no different than a racist white person saying "they should have killed 6 more niggers when they killed mlk, so they can have an entire week off"... like, dude they dead, let them be. So I guess you kinda reap what you sow.
Back then racism and the Civil rights movement were a thing. It was society directly. Nowadays, 70 years later, we're a melting pot and blacks have all the same rights as whites. To be honest, they are even more privileged than white people. Life is given to them for free. Free food, free housing, free bill assistance, etc. I don't want to hear about suppression or any of that bullshit. I call it laziness, but i digress.
At the end of the day here in the states, black people hate other black people more than anyone else does. You hold each other back more than anyone else does. Because of the life democrats have given them, they will always strive to do less for more. No other race besides Latinos (put a Mexican and an el salvadorian man in a room together and they probably fight) shit on each other more. A successful black person doesn't play the victim card. They play the success card. They aren't offended when someone calls them a nigger, simply because they know the color of their skin doesn't affect whether or not they are successful.
Idk if that all makes sense, but my belief is that life is hard. If people can't handle the interweb and all the shit that comes along with it, they shouldn't be online. Someone calls you a nigger in person, you can do something about it if you feel it necessary. Someone calls you a nigger online, call them a nigger back, or get offline. Crying about it is soft though.