Serious Accused of sexual harassment at work

[Fentanyl Floyd]

So you’re a Feminist? Most of my comments are complete sarcasm…. I hate most people generally. It’s easier than trying to understand them.

I've found trying to understand most other people is kinda futile especially the more emotional one's

 

[Grand Mal Caesar]

ooo ontario eh? ya shouldn’t have hootered her tooter buddy! lol jk i didn’t read anything and I’m not going to.

You're better off not reading that filth. What he did to that poor girl was disgusting. She probably has to carry around one of those stress animals so she doesn't freak out in airports and restaurants now.

 

[Slight86]

Were you listening to Nickelback?

 

[Bill Murray]

Have you raped her for real yet?

 

[schizogangrape]

Show her real sexual harassment !!!

 

[Elvis_presley]

Not really sure how to reply but i know people who have their phone on voice record all day just encase anyone makes allegations, so they can prove their innocence.

 

[Zargon the great]

Number 1, No one gives a fuck about your goddamn online profile or pictures of your mug, or office. Lose the iPhone, or keep it in your pocket. 2. This is a litigious age we live in, and women have been brain-washed by the feminists that any attention at all paid to a woman from a man is harassment 3. You're screwed, so look for another job, make sure HR gives a neutral reference.

 

[Icantkieev]

Number 1, No one gives a fuck about your goddamn online profile or pictures of your mug, or office. Lose the iPhone, or keep it in your pocket. 2. This is a litigious age we live in, and women have been brain-washed by the feminists that any attention at all paid to a woman from a man is harassment 3. You're screwed, so look for another job, make sure HR gives a neutral reference.

chill man

 

[Zargon the great]

Even the bible says when someone throws rocks at you throw back with dinamites.

Where in the Bible does it mention dynamite? Also, you misspelled dynamite.

chill man

Just telling it like it is.

 

[wiggins]

I think you should become a homosexual. Your frivolities will be accepted in that weird community.

Better still, say you are a trans woman and she is trans phobic. She'll be more fucked then than she ever though possible.

And you will be 'proud', 'brave' and 'beautiful'...

 

[freebsd]

These crazy new wifi printers can get you in trouble.
One guy walked in and a picture on his phone started printing.

But it is LEGAL to take pictures of anything in public. You don't need consent at all.
Had a case in Massachusetts that had a guy taking pictures up womens dresses on busses. Sorry ladies, no law breaking, wear panties.

Where in the Bible does it mention dynamite? Also, you misspelled dynamite.

Just telling it like it is.

I thought dinamites were like the jawbone of a small dinosaur.

 

[Choppy]

If you are a fucking pervert, admited it and kill yourself. You will gain some respect back if you do that. Nothing I hate more than fucking perverts. And, if you are not a pervert, you are an idiot who needs a lesson on personal boundaries. So, fuck yourself, own your shit and grow up.

🤣

 

[rovex]

Unless you can dig up past dirt about her, there’s nothing you can do to discredit her and the accusations against you. People will always judge. Just leave.

 

[HG]

Update pls @Necroplant...

The people want to know...

 

[(G.O.A.T.) Tubemonkey]

Update pls @Necroplant...

The people want to know...

He's holed up in a padded room somewhere for the sexually insane.

 

[whiteboyopie]

Background info: I'm 37 (Southern Ontario, Canada), failed post-secondary attempts but that's the past right? Looking past regrets and looking into the varied skilled trades to find something I'd really enjoy doing that pays well. Until then, general labour jobs in the area; I lucked out with a pool company as a maintenance person.

They assigned me for first three days with this girl who's probably 22 at oldest. I'm not going to jeopardize this new job that pays a decent starting wage for the coming inflation. So I actually respect women a lot and actually try to make them comfortable around me, by not ogling them or staring, catcalling or any of that shit they complain about so much about actual creeps. Me and her start off pretty good, she's good at her job and taught me most of what I know so far. Any other talk we've had has been random and mundane, like her bringing up her personal life, and we compared pets and she even asked me advice on how to handle her and her mom's dogs' separation, and I emphasized to bring dog for visit as often as possible when she goes to see her mom.

One day I want to take a selfie to add to profile pictures, because I want more photos of myself in varying situations. (Vital point to add: girls have complimented my looks quite a few times in the past, I'm not saying that to brag, but just to illuminate this isn't some fucking goblin hitting on a 10 lol). I considered just taking it sideways to show work equipment and part of her in picture incidentally, but I decided to ask permission first. She was driving and I asked loud and clear if I could take a work selfie for photo collection, and if she was in shot I'd blur or crop it. She turned slightly, saw phone and said "Yeah, that's fine."

Then she reports me to the manager, who calls me in the next morning to say she accused me of harassment and taking photos of her. Despite her granting explicit consent to my face. Not usually confrontational, and in the moment of being chewed out, I didn't remember to say that. The girl avoided me terribly, didn't say hello, looked past me, like night and day. Since girls talk, she has guaranteed told other co-workers her version of events by now.

They assigned me with someone else, we did our first few jobs but I was still badly affected by the harassment accusation. It took a few hours before I realized I forgot she granted consent.

The harassment policy in the employee handbook states "All events will be investigated fully and fairly in a reasonable amount of time. No employee will be reprimanded in any way for reporting an act of violence or harassment regardless of the outcome of the investigation." Typical harassment policy, but does that mean female employees can make shit up about a guy they work with, with no fear of consequence to themselves?

Going in 30 min early Monday, going to constructively discuss this with manager and seeing what happens; because the situation as it stands is untenable, and imo this is a huge misunderstanding, or she forgot what she said. I'd love it to just go back to normal with no awkwardness, but we'll see. But I won't work at a place that labels me a harasser unfairly, without due process. I'll do best to enjoy weekend before then.

I just had to vent about this shit, and gather opinions.

😟😟😟😟😟😟😟

You might have a major problem . There is no " due process" in these events. It's her word. Your guilty. That's the process. Note Harvey Weinstine. I absolutely do not believe he assaulted nor forced himself on any woman.
But again the " due process" are the women accusing him at a mock trial.
That's the process.
Be careful. If your tagged as a " sex problem" you won't get hired to shovel chit from barns. I know a guy who is going through this. The companies are bound by law ( so I was told) , to tell any future companies you apply to of your " harrasment".
America sucks so bad.

If you are a fucking pervert, admited it and kill yourself. You will gain some respect back if you do that. Nothing I hate more than fucking perverts. And, if you are not a pervert, you are an idiot who needs a lesson on personal boundaries. So, fuck yourself, own your shit and grow up.

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Is telling a girl she is pretty, looks nice, dresses great, make a guy a pervert ?
Ya. In America it does.
You sure seem to know a lot about it.

 

[Mackerel]

 

[Choppy]

Were you listening to Nickelback?

Dimefront really.

 

[variometer]

But my grand grand parents we’re slaves…why I gatta pay go tis shit

 

[Bert123]

Background info: I'm 37 (Southern Ontario, Canada), failed post-secondary attempts but that's the past right? Looking past regrets and looking into the varied skilled trades to find something I'd really enjoy doing that pays well. Until then, general labour jobs in the area; I lucked out with a pool company as a maintenance person.

They assigned me for first three days with this girl who's probably 22 at oldest. I'm not going to jeopardize this new job that pays a decent starting wage for the coming inflation. So I actually respect women a lot and actually try to make them comfortable around me, by not ogling them or staring, catcalling or any of that shit they complain about so much about actual creeps. Me and her start off pretty good, she's good at her job and taught me most of what I know so far. Any other talk we've had has been random and mundane, like her bringing up her personal life, and we compared pets and she even asked me advice on how to handle her and her mom's dogs' separation, and I emphasized to bring dog for visit as often as possible when she goes to see her mom.

One day I want to take a selfie to add to profile pictures, because I want more photos of myself in varying situations. (Vital point to add: girls have complimented my looks quite a few times in the past, I'm not saying that to brag, but just to illuminate this isn't some fucking goblin hitting on a 10 lol). I considered just taking it sideways to show work equipment and part of her in picture incidentally, but I decided to ask permission first. She was driving and I asked loud and clear if I could take a work selfie for photo collection, and if she was in shot I'd blur or crop it. She turned slightly, saw phone and said "Yeah, that's fine."

Then she reports me to the manager, who calls me in the next morning to say she accused me of harassment and taking photos of her. Despite her granting explicit consent to my face. Not usually confrontational, and in the moment of being chewed out, I didn't remember to say that. The girl avoided me terribly, didn't say hello, looked past me, like night and day. Since girls talk, she has guaranteed told other co-workers her version of events by now.

They assigned me with someone else, we did our first few jobs but I was still badly affected by the harassment accusation. It took a few hours before I realized I forgot she granted consent.

The harassment policy in the employee handbook states "All events will be investigated fully and fairly in a reasonable amount of time. No employee will be reprimanded in any way for reporting an act of violence or harassment regardless of the outcome of the investigation." Typical harassment policy, but does that mean female employees can make shit up about a guy they work with, with no fear of consequence to themselves?

Going in 30 min early Monday, going to constructively discuss this with manager and seeing what happens; because the situation as it stands is untenable, and imo this is a huge misunderstanding, or she forgot what she said. I'd love it to just go back to normal with no awkwardness, but we'll see. But I won't work at a place that labels me a harasser unfairly, without due process. I'll do best to enjoy weekend before then.

I just had to vent about this shit, and gather opinions.

Cant be fucked to read it ...you must be gay to write it though ...