Serious Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships?

[Smokinrav]

It's also true that I'm quite particular. For example, if you come to me and say, "I made a mistake, I apologize, I'll try to make sure it doesn't happen again next time.." there will be a next time we see each other. But if you come to me, don't apologize, and say, "I'll make it up to you the next time we see each other" there won't be a next time....

Depending on the situation, I'm totally behind this POV. I dont suffer fools gladly. But I still retain my empathy.

 

[steroidtulip]

There is no way you went out with a pro knitter ! Was 70 ? lol

 

[Preacher]

There is no way you went out with a pro knitter ! Was 70 ? lol

Lol! Nah, she's 35.

What I can tell you is that she's very affectionate. She's the kind of woman who, for example, while you're sitting working she'll come in wearing only her underwear, climb on top of you with her legs spread, and spend the whole day like that, caressing and kissing you. But curiously, at the same time, she's submissive in bed...

She's quite humble and not demanding. Any kind of outing with her is appreciated by her, whether it's going for a drink in a park, going to an expensive restaurant (she appreciates it, but doesn't feel comfortable in expensive restaurants), or taking her for a vacation somewhere. She values any kind of outing, even if it's just for a couple of hours. I think all this is perhaps because her profession keeps her indoors and alone for long periods, and it doesn't exactly generate good money, which makes her feel insecure/unconfortable for example in expensive restaurants because she can't afford expensive clothes...

But just like with the lawyer thing, I only dated one knitter, so I can't take all this as a pattern either...

 

[Fäthër Cörpsë]

Lol! Nah, she's 35.

What I can tell you is that she's very affectionate. She's the kind of woman who, for example, while you're sitting working she'll come in wearing only her underwear, climb on top of you with her legs spread, and spend the whole day like that, caressing and kissing you. But curiously, at the same time, she's submissive in bed...

She's quite humble and not demanding. Any kind of outing with her is appreciated by her, whether it's going for a drink in a park, going to an expensive restaurant (she appreciates it, but doesn't feel comfortable in expensive restaurants), or taking her for a vacation somewhere. She values any kind of outing, even if it's just for a couple of hours. I think all this is perhaps because her profession keeps her indoors and alone for long periods, and it doesn't exactly generate good money, which makes her feel insecure/unconfortable for example, in expensive restaurants because she can't afford expensive clothes...

But hey, just like with the lawyer thing, I only dated one knitter, so I can't take all this as a pattern either...

Sounds annoying asf, ngl.

Obviously I am working, woman. Why you gotta be all up in my grill with your nonsense

 

[Richard 1986]

Relationships ? What are you talking about ??

 

[Preacher]

Sounds annoying asf, ngl.

Obviously I am working, woman. Why you gotta be all up in my grill with your nonsense

Yeah, for most people it's annoying. And it's perfectly logical that it should be so.

I've had important work meetings where I turned off my camera because she was hugging and kissing me, but in my particular case, being an affectionate (and sexual) person myself, it doesn't bother me at all, and it's also true that, while she was passionate, she was also respectful, she always asked beforehand..

 

[DeathMetalWife]

Men that work in corporate finance or insurance of any kind. Not long term relationship material.

Singers. Dated 2 (1M, 1F) in years past, both very selfish and absolutely insufferable in hindsight.

 

[Damo0666™️]

Police officer would definitely be a deal breaker

 

[hedgerow]

Ironically, ^^^^ I would never marry a preacher.

Being an atheist and all.....

one of my nieces married a Preacher's Son and was slowly but surely absorbed into the cult. Only recently she was submersed in water and born-again.

 

[Fäthër Cörpsë]

Men that work in corporate finance or insurance of any kind. Not long term relationship material.

Singers. Dated 2 (1M, 1F) in years past, both very selfish and absolutely insufferable in hindsight.

But have you considered extending your warranty insurance? Give me a call.

 

[hedgerow]

Police officer would definitely be a deal breaker

i've had family members who are police and in one of their many fights, the wife pulled out her loaded service weapon and pointed it at the husband. Now divorced, thankfully.

 

[Hellride]

If she's homeless, uses meth, and makes money by standing outside 7/11 begging, I can't recommend going on more than 2 or 3 dates.

She might give a great gum job tho.

 

[K.I.T.T.]

Any woman employed by a company that includes the words "feminism" or "equality" in their mission statement.

 

[jewel13]

Lol, I have a Masters in Organizational Psychology. But I actually moved away from the clinical part and chose research because I found most students insufferable in the way you described. Lots of troubled people thinking they could fix themselves and others through reading some books. Ofcourse, Psychology goes deeper than that, but it's one of the professions in which lots of people suffer from occupational deformity.

Not all of them though! I am still very intelligent, beautiful and above all, extremely modest!

 

[Preacher]

and above all, extremely modest!

This reminded me of myself, I used to be vain but now I'm perfect....

 

[K.I.T.T.]

This reminded me of myself, I used to be vain but now I'm perfect....

I once suffered the delusional thought that I may have been wrong, but I was mistaken.

 

[steroidtulip]

Lol! Nah, she's 35.

What I can tell you is that she's very affectionate. She's the kind of woman who, for example, while you're sitting working she'll come in wearing only her underwear, climb on top of you with her legs spread, and spend the whole day like that, caressing and kissing you. But curiously, at the same time, she's submissive in bed...

She's quite humble and not demanding. Any kind of outing with her is appreciated by her, whether it's going for a drink in a park, going to an expensive restaurant (she appreciates it, but doesn't feel comfortable in expensive restaurants), or taking her for a vacation somewhere. She values any kind of outing, even if it's just for a couple of hours. I think all this is perhaps because her profession keeps her indoors and alone for long periods, and it doesn't exactly generate good money, which makes her feel insecure/unconfortable for example in expensive restaurants because she can't afford expensive clothes...

But just like with the lawyer thing, I only dated one knitter, so I can't take all this as a pattern either...

I take it you don't live in the U.K. lol ?

 

[Joker1981]

I see that the whole whoring thing, was already mentioned!

 

[Fäthër Cörpsë]

Anything to do with professional religiosity. Pastor, parson, preacher, priest, vicar, bishop, etc. all are sus

 

[PurrGirl]

No cops. That profession attracts the nastiest kind of bullies; men with little personal power who use the artificial power of the badge to lord it over people.