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Serious Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships?

In your experience, are there any professions that are a red flag when it comes to dating/relationship? Which ones? Why?

During my 46 years of life I've been in relationships with several women of different ages and professions. I've been in relationships with secretaries, elementary school teachers, kindergarten teachers, psychologists, makeup artists, knitters, saleswomen, promoters, models, lawyers, and a few others I'm probably forgetting. In each of these professions I've been with women of different ages...

I have some pros and cons to consider regarding their professions. For example, with secretaries, they take great care of their appearance and are organized, but at the same time, they have very high aspirations for what they offer. Something very similar happens with models and promoters, except that it's not a matter of aspiring to more than they offer, but rather that they think they're much more than they are, they are disorganized, and unpunctual. Kindergarten teachers, on the other hand, are tender, tend to be humble, and are great mothers (I married one and had two daughters, and although we later separated, as a mother she is loving and exceptional), however, they tend to have problems when something isn't done or isn't the way they want it, or they have issues related to exercising their authority outside the classroom. But nothing intolerable, unbearable...

However, of all the professions, there is one that, for me, has become a red flag, and I would never again agree to a date with a woman in that field: psychologists. They're truly crazy. They have an overwhelming need to relate everything to the books they studied, whether from the Lacanian or Freudian school of thought. They're unbearable. In many cases, they try to manipulate you, even eventually attempting to diagnose you with psychological illnesses that are actually projections of their own!!!! Every psychologist I've ever seen has exhibited this behavior... crazy and intolerable people.

Anyway, this is just my experience... Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships? Why?
Don't date a prostitute who only does bareback I haven't but it's just a thought after reading your post 🤔
 
In your experience, are there any professions that are a red flag when it comes to dating/relationship? Which ones? Why?

During my 46 years of life I've been in relationships with several women of different ages and professions. I've been in relationships with secretaries, elementary school teachers, kindergarten teachers, psychologists, makeup artists, knitters, saleswomen, promoters, models, lawyers, and a few others I'm probably forgetting. In each of these professions I've been with women of different ages...

I have some pros and cons to consider regarding their professions. For example, with secretaries, they take great care of their appearance and are organized, but at the same time, they have very high aspirations for what they offer. Something very similar happens with models and promoters, except that it's not a matter of aspiring to more than they offer, but rather that they think they're much more than they are, they are disorganized, and unpunctual. Kindergarten teachers, on the other hand, are tender, tend to be humble, and are great mothers (I married one and had two daughters, and although we later separated, as a mother she is loving and exceptional), however, they tend to have problems when something isn't done or isn't the way they want it, or they have issues related to exercising their authority outside the classroom. But nothing intolerable, unbearable...

However, of all the professions, there is one that, for me, has become a red flag, and I would never again agree to a date with a woman in that field: psychologists. They're truly crazy. They have an overwhelming need to relate everything to the books they studied, whether from the Lacanian or Freudian school of thought. They're unbearable. In many cases, they try to manipulate you, even eventually attempting to diagnose you with psychological illnesses that are actually projections of their own!!!! Every psychologist I've ever seen has exhibited this behavior... crazy and intolerable people.

Anyway, this is just my experience... Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships? Why?
Lawyers 😬 tried it with 2 and they’re both bland
 
Yeah mine . By the way love I've got Ur dad in the back . No shit 💯

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Lol, I have a Masters in Organizational Psychology. But I actually moved away from the clinical part and chose research because I found most students insufferable in the way you described. Lots of troubled people thinking they could fix themselves and others through reading some books. Ofcourse, Psychology goes deeper than that, but it's one of the professions in which lots of people suffer from occupational deformity.

Not all of them though! I am still very intelligent, beautiful and above all, extremely modest!
jewel i could tell you’re intelligent just by looking at your photo, and yes beautiful as well
 
Weird I was going to say Psychologist or Counselor , there's definitely something people sensed with those ones. May I add a RED FLAG warning for hobbies and interests also .. stay away from women who get their fucking Tarot cards read or pay money for dodgy psychic readings or worse, claim to do their own readings and astrology. Those people become convinced that their weird suspicions (paranoias) are actually true and they manifest ridiculous beliefs from nowhere and convince themself it's real and true.
 
Weird I was going to say Psychologist or Counselor , there's definitely something people sensed with those ones. May I add a RED FLAG warning for hobbies and interests also .. stay away from women who get their fucking Tarot cards read or pay money for dodgy psychic readings or worse, claim to do their own readings and astrology. Those people become convinced that their weird suspicions (paranoias) are actually true and they manifest ridiculous beliefs from nowhere and convince themself it's real and true.

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You asked the wrong question. You should have asked, what profession will give your relationship a better chance of success? To which I would say date a mortician. At least you know she won't be getting banged at work.
 
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