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Female Facial Piercings...Do Women Do It For Men, Or For Other Women?

I personally know of two young women who have piercings on their facial area.

One of them is a neighbor across the street and one house over.
She has a piercing through her left eyebrow.

I occasionally encounter her when we're walking our dogs, and we'll stop and exchange pleasantries with each other.
She's in her mid-30's, is married, and is a nice girl...but the stud through her left eyebrow somewhat annoys me, and I find it distracting and needless...and a detraction from her overall persona.

The second young woman works where I work.
She's in her late 20's, has a long-term live-in boyfriend, and is also a very nice girl...but she has a piercing to one side of her upper lip.
Again, I find her facial piercing to be annoying and distracting...and I believe it detracts from her overall persona.

From across a room, it appears that she might have an unsightly mole on one side of her upper lip...but when you get closer to her, you realize that it's a lip piercing with an unsightly stud through her upper lip.

Now, since both of these young women have "significant others" at home, I can logically conclude that they don't have facial piercings to impress or attract men.

Thus, my logical conclusion is that women engage in this tom-foolery and defacement of themselves in an attempt to impress other women.

Regards,
-Ward
 
Mostly agree, almost similarly with makeup tbh.. and basically all elements of fashion
And obviously anything meant to be sexually alluring will be for others (of your sexual preference)

But of course some people will be doing it just for themselves
Since the dawn of time we've decorated ourselves
And no matter where in the world, at any time.. whether necessary or not.. we tend to wear clothes, with elaborate designs and what not
A lot of that is probably more to impress the self
Another extension/enhancement of your character/personality to some extent
 
I have seen a couple of comments here that have alluded to an "alternative" look...but in reality, there's nothing "alternative" about it.
And that's because they're not expressing any individuality whatsoever.

In fact, just the opposite...they're merely following "trends"...and thus, they're just being like every other person who follows trends...instead of simply being themselves.
Therefore, they have no individuality whatsoever.
They're just carbon-copies of everyone else who's following the latest "trend."
One person does it...and everyone else copies it. Boring.

It's sort of like "trendy" catch-phrases.

For a while, it was "trendy" to reply with the idiotic phrase..."I know...right?"...if someone heard a statement that he or she agreed with.
Thus, they all sounded like a bunch of silly carbon-copies of each other...but ZERO individuality.
One person says it...and everyone else copies it. Again...boring.

Now, the "trendy" catch-phrase seems to be starting a sentence with the word "so."
I call them "so-sayers."

Thus, lately you'll ask a person a question, and they'll respond with..."So...it seems to me that..." and then they'll answer the question.

And the vast majority of sentences starting with the word "so" are grammatically incorrect.
But, one person says it, so everyone else says it...again, silly carbon-copies of each other. Boring.

Thus, the person...male or female...who truly stands out and is different is the individual who doesn't follow trends...either in speech, clothing, or jewelry...that is the person who stands out as unique and as a true individual.

Regards,
-Ward
 
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RatSalad said:
Piercings...I love scaring old people.


LOL. You can't seriously believe that?

"Piercings" are ubiquitous nowadays.

In other words, they're everywhere...everyone and their brother has one.

You're not "scaring" anyone...young or old...you're just looking like a carbon-copy of everyone else.

Thus, you're not "scaring" anyone...hell, you're not even being unique or different.

You're just following "trends," and being a carbon-copy of everyone else who follows the same trends. Boring.

Regards,
-Ward
 
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