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In your experience, are there any professions that are a red flag when it comes to dating/relationship? Which ones? Why?
During my 46 years of life I've been in relationships with several women of different ages and professions. I've been in relationships with secretaries, elementary school teachers, kindergarten teachers, psychologists, makeup artists, knitters, saleswomen, promoters, models, lawyers, and a few others I'm probably forgetting. In each of these professions I've been with women of different ages...
I have some pros and cons to consider regarding their professions. For example, with secretaries, they take great care of their appearance and are organized, but at the same time, they have very high aspirations for what they offer. Something very similar happens with models and promoters, except that it's not a matter of aspiring to more than they offer, but rather that they think they're much more than they are, they are disorganized, and unpunctual. Kindergarten teachers, on the other hand, are tender, tend to be humble, and are great mothers (I married one and had two daughters, and although we later separated, as a mother she is loving and exceptional), however, they tend to have problems when something isn't done or isn't the way they want it, or they have issues related to exercising their authority outside the classroom. But nothing intolerable, unbearable...
However, of all the professions, there is one that, for me, has become a red flag, and I would never again agree to a date with a woman in that field: psychologists. They're truly crazy. They have an overwhelming need to relate everything to the books they studied, whether from the Lacanian or Freudian school of thought. They're unbearable. In many cases, they try to manipulate you, even eventually attempting to diagnose you with psychological illnesses that are actually projections of their own!!!! Every psychologist I've ever seen has exhibited this behavior... crazy and intolerable people.
Anyway, this is just my experience... Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships? Why?
During my 46 years of life I've been in relationships with several women of different ages and professions. I've been in relationships with secretaries, elementary school teachers, kindergarten teachers, psychologists, makeup artists, knitters, saleswomen, promoters, models, lawyers, and a few others I'm probably forgetting. In each of these professions I've been with women of different ages...
I have some pros and cons to consider regarding their professions. For example, with secretaries, they take great care of their appearance and are organized, but at the same time, they have very high aspirations for what they offer. Something very similar happens with models and promoters, except that it's not a matter of aspiring to more than they offer, but rather that they think they're much more than they are, they are disorganized, and unpunctual. Kindergarten teachers, on the other hand, are tender, tend to be humble, and are great mothers (I married one and had two daughters, and although we later separated, as a mother she is loving and exceptional), however, they tend to have problems when something isn't done or isn't the way they want it, or they have issues related to exercising their authority outside the classroom. But nothing intolerable, unbearable...
However, of all the professions, there is one that, for me, has become a red flag, and I would never again agree to a date with a woman in that field: psychologists. They're truly crazy. They have an overwhelming need to relate everything to the books they studied, whether from the Lacanian or Freudian school of thought. They're unbearable. In many cases, they try to manipulate you, even eventually attempting to diagnose you with psychological illnesses that are actually projections of their own!!!! Every psychologist I've ever seen has exhibited this behavior... crazy and intolerable people.
Anyway, this is just my experience... Are there any professions that you consider a red flag when it comes to relationships? Why?
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