Femcels

[92.eth]

When a woman named Alana coined the term “incel” in the late 90s, she couldn’t have predicted the outcome. What started as a harmless website to connect lonely, “involuntary celibate” men and women has morphed into an underground online movement associated with male violence and extreme misogyny.
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But it is not just incel men who struggle to find sexual connections in the modern world. Some young women are turning to online “femcel” spaces to discuss the challenges they face as involuntary celibates.
Theirs is a non-violent resistance. Rather than blaming the opposite sex for their unhappiness, as some of their male counterparts do, femcels tend to believe their own “ugliness” is the root cause of their loneliness. Posting anonymously on platforms they have designed for themselves, they argue that they are invisible due to their abnormal appearance, and that our beauty-centric, misogynistic culture prevents them from being accepted. There is anger and open grappling with self-esteem, but no extreme hatred and no sense of entitlement within the community.
Meanwhile, a far greater number of women would not describe themselves as femcels, but live unintentionally celibate lives. They share many of the femcels’ concerns.
Caitlin, 39, doesn’t call herself a femcel, but she hasn’t had sex for almost eight years and doesn’t think she will find another sexual partner. “I’m not conventionally attractive and I never get approached by men,” she says. “They don’t look at me. I’ve had therapy to try to address these issues, but dating feels like a barren wasteland. It’s worse as I get older, because I’ve missed that short window to marry and have a family.”
She never tells people that she is celibate, because it makes her feel “abnormal” and inadequate. “I feel a lot of anger and hurt that my life has ended up this way. I struggle to cope with the fact I may never find a partner. Society makes it harder because, after a certain age, people tend to pair off and form their own insular units and life gets lonely for single people.”
Although Caitlin is not morally opposed to casual sex, it is not an experience that feels right for her. She has had two short-term relationships, which ended in heartbreak. There is a popular notion among incel communities – and even in wider society – that women are privileged because they can get sex at any time. Not only is that untrue, as many women will testify, but also, as Caitlin points out, not all sex is enjoyable. “Generally, men who aren’t in a relationship with you don’t make it a pleasurable experience,” she says. “The risk of rejection afterwards is high, which makes the sex even less enjoyable. As a woman, you want to be desired, not treated like a piece of meat.”

Caitlin is aware that men also struggle with self-esteem issues linked to appearance, but believes the pressure is greater for women. “I’m not especially drawn to someone’s looks or height. I prefer to get to know someone and develop an attraction. But I feel that a man who didn’t find me attractive straight away would never learn to become attracted to me. I see lots of beautiful women dating men who aren’t good-looking, but rarely the other way around. Men have more ways to attract a partner than looks.”

‘I feel hurt that my life has ended up here’: The women who are involuntary celibates

What is it like to go without a partner when you long for one – and when even a fleeting sexual connection feels impossible?

www.theguardian.com

 

[JG Ballard]

Dating and trying to reconcile male and female perspectives within the dating scene is a real drag. For men, finding a way to have regular access to prostitutes seems to me to be the most honest and practical way of dealing with sexual needs. Feelings don't get hurt and there is a guaranteed release. Of course there is the issue of having money for this but that can be overcome. For women, men are usually a big disappointment because the goal is more about sharing emotions and intimacy while what they're usually faced with is someone just looking to get off. But like one of the women in the article pointed out, paid escorts can help to achieve this at some level. One is lucky if one finds a soulmate in this life, but realistically we're all just achieving temporary solutions.

 

[Bloodshot]

So an organisation started to hook up lonely fugly fuckers got spun into a terrorist thing by government and media. While government and media who consistently and continuously twist everything to turn people against each other get all our money.... seems legit

 

[not_a_robot]

Dating and trying to reconcile male and female perspectives within the dating scene is a real drag. For men, finding a way to have regular access to prostitutes seems to me to be the most honest and practical way of dealing with sexual needs. Feelings don't get hurt and there is a guaranteed release. Of course there is the issue of having money for this but that can be overcome. For women, men are usually a big disappointment because the goal is more about sharing emotions and intimacy while what they're usually faced with is someone just looking to get off. But like one of the women in the article pointed out, paid escorts can help to achieve this at some level. One is lucky if one finds a soulmate in this life, but realistically we're all just achieving temporary solutions.

Everything in life is temporary. You're soulmate will find another soul mate after you drop dead...

 

[mrln]

wheres the link to said ugly site? i know a few people who could use it.

 

[HG]

Attention any femcels on here - i will help you...

I am here for you...

 

[Headlikeahole]

And the pandemic has made it even worse...there's no chance to get to know new people, and social life will take years to become "normal" again...so older people are screwed 😕
And the pandemic has made it even worse...there's no chance to get to know new people, and social life will take years to become "normal" again...so older people are screwed 😕

 

[Nobbler]

First just want to say I admire Katie piper, what she went through and still came out the other end strong and pretty, I used to say I’m never getting married or at least till my 40s, so there I was a blubbering jelly with a pretty bride at 26, you never know what the day will bring.

 

[Vwj]

She looks Australian, brainfart is Australian and he’ll fuck anything, job sorted

 

[quays2]

God invented plastic surgery and breast implants we should use it more often

 

[wiggins]

She looks Australian, brainfart is Australian and he’ll fuck anything, job sorted

It's abo allright.
Probably Walpri from Tennant Creek, 500 km north of Alice Springs.
Unsure if it's male or female. Probably female.
Walpri are uber aggro and are always at war with Wurramungu from the same area.
There are some beautiful aboriginal women but oh so many look like this...

Whilst there may be some incel aboriginal women, it's only on a concious level. The community clinics are always sorting out woman with STD's who have no memory of having sex. They were passed out in the long grass and fucked whilst unconcious from alcohol.

It's endemic...

 

[Panzercat79]

If that ain't the missing link,I don't know what the fuck it could be.

 

[cacarara74874]

Femcel isn't a real thing, even morbidly obese, crippled and disfigured women can find some dude to fuck them.

 

[Blanche Hudson]

If you’re fugly find another fugly person and accept it. I did and I’ve never been happier!

 

[Bill Murray]

Sweet merciful jesus that thing is horrific! I'd like to see a genetic profile of that monstrosity cause it ain't all human.

 

[HG]

Dating and trying to reconcile male and female perspectives within the dating scene is a real drag. For men, finding a way to have regular access to prostitutes seems to me to be the most honest and practical way of dealing with sexual needs. Feelings don't get hurt and there is a guaranteed release. Of course there is the issue of having money for this but that can be overcome. For women, men are usually a big disappointment because the goal is more about sharing emotions and intimacy while what they're usually faced with is someone just looking to get off. But like one of the women in the article pointed out, paid escorts can help to achieve this at some level. One is lucky if one finds a soulmate in this life, but realistically we're all just achieving temporary solutions.

You are an intelligent man - i like you - where are you from? - tell me your age...

 

[D.O.A.]

First just want to say I admire Katie piper, what she went through and still came out the other end strong and pretty, I used to say I’m never getting married or at least till my 40s, so there I was a blubbering jelly with a pretty bride at 26, you never know what the day will bring.

Seriously? I just googled her and it's obvious this "activist" dated a nigger for woke social credit and it literally blew up in her face.

 

[Grand Mal Caesar]

She remonds me of "Throw Mama From the Train".

 

[Varmint Hunter]

WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT THING IN THE FIRST PIC, OP??? That looks like something that has been killing and eating people in the Everglades and the authorities have been writing off as "alligator attacks" in order to avoid mass panic...

 

[Sweet Death]

Sweet merciful jesus that thing is horrific! I'd like to see a genetic profile of that monstrosity cause it ain't all human.

It's a throwback to a Neanderthal, or even Cro-Magnon, got the prehistoric genes