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Is suicide cowardly?

I find it to be selfish and weakness honestly. If you feel llike you have nothing or no one you need to stop and look around because you're neglecting the people around you.
 
People suck and are fake. They themselves are neglectors. Mental health sucks and so do people who cause it.
No one is resposible for us but ourselves. I couldn't get myself sober till I accepted I was the only one to blame. Same goes for my acceptance of self, I could never be happy by looking at myself through other peoples eyes and expectations. Till I made myself the most important person to me, I was always worthless.
 
Do you consider suicide to be cowardly? Ive seen such a debate on whether suicide is actually just a selfish act and cowardly or not.
It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem mate. Tried it by smashing loads of painkillers a few time's. It didn't feel selfish at the time but it was in hindsight. You're leaving everyone else to deal with you're thoughts that they wouldn't understand and could only question. Keep the heed, change you're lifestyle the lot ditch the negative people more so if they're constants even family. Found family to be worse in my case. Hit the gym go a big ass walk clear you're head, ditch the 100% negatives drink drugs whatever that's the start,set daft goals even if it's hitting the shower set a time an make yerself do it progressively go from there it's no happening but it feels top notch. Keep the faith
 
No one is resposible for us but ourselves. I couldn't get myself sober till I accepted I was the only one to blame. Same goes for my acceptance of self, I could never be happy by looking at myself through other peoples eyes and expectations. Till I made myself the most important person to me, I was always worthless.


Well parents are responsible for the kids they have and that's where it can all go wrong.

It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem mate. Tried it by smashing loads of painkillers a few time's. It didn't feel selfish at the time but it was in hindsight. You're leaving everyone else to deal with you're thoughts that they wouldn't understand and could only question. Keep the heed, change you're lifestyle the lot ditch the negative people more so if they're constants even family. Found family to be worse in my case. Hit the gym go a big ass walk clear you're head, ditch the 100% negatives drink drugs whatever that's the start,set daft goals even if it's hitting the shower set a time an make yerself do it progressively go from there it's no happening but it feels top notch. Keep the faith

It's a shame you don't understand how mental health really works.
 
IMHO no... they have the courage to do so... it is hard to think what would be there in the other side(if there is one)... to free oneself to the good and bad of this world...

... but if you are thinking of doing this please seek help first call your local suicide hotline

... i hope this is just a topic of dicussion not an actual case if you want to do it or not
 
It depends why the person wants to die. If someone has medical reasons like a painful, incurable disease, like terminal cancer, I don't see how that is selfish.
I would never want to see a family member or a friend suffer in that kind of hell.

My grandfather killed himself. My grandmother had died some years previous to this with absolutely horrible Alzheimer's disease. My father would go to my grandfather's apartment every week on a certain day to take him grocery shopping, and wherever he needed to go. My father went there on the designated day and found his father hanging. My Grandfather was 86 years old when he killed himself.

My family was angry because he knew my father would find him...and what a horrible way to treat my dad, who was devoted to him. I think he had reached the point where his sadness and old age made him do this, but my dad didn't deserve that. Families are so fucked up.
 
Suicide is as cowardly as the suicidal person allows it to be.

Meaning and value are both ascribed.
 
Well parents are responsible for the kids they have and that's where it can all go wrong.



It's a shame you don't understand how mental health really works.
I think I might have a grasp having suffered from it still am, I'm not saying I have the answers, I'm just passing on what's worked for me.tryin to be of some use rather than being a no use like yerself ya bellend, hitting out with negative statements with no actual input .suck a cheesy boaby 😂
 
if its bcuz of pain in life emotionally/physically, you give up surrendering to lifes challenges... like a kamakazee into inevitable death or sacrifice.... so to give up ones hurt in suicide is perhaps brave and weak at the same time; not weak in the sense the individual is weak, but weak in the sense this option is now something reasonable(like all other resources have ran out and now youve been weakened).

sometimes the hurt is so great, that i guess even death is preferable above it; and that would be very scary. so maybe its brave, but if it's for something really dumb its incredibly weak.
like idk; im sure we've all heard the stories of ppl that kill themselves over a game or something.... this is just foolish and weak and ignorant to actual things that matter.
if its an emotional/physical hurt so unbearable then this is maybe kinda brave... bcuz you're eliminating it at all costs no matter what. whatever that pain is has been defeated in their eyes... but in a sense whatever it was in perspective defeated them. (in some cases perhaps)

for lots of ppl it's a war in their heart and mind and in a war things get destroyed.... ppl will sacrifice entire millions for one victory and in the heart and mind of that person their life was worth sacrificing to achieve that victory against whatever their inner enemy is they're battling.

so for the individuals that have left this world that way, i wouldn't call them cowards.
some ppl with mental illnesses off themselves bcuz the torment in their heart and minds is so great they actually sacrifice themselves to destroy that enemy within them. they are not cowards, they are emotionally damaged and they basically kamikazed themselves into themselves.

anyways id nvr recommend that as an option to anyone... often times they leave behind ppl that cared about them and they wish every tear in their bodies they knew and could have helped them.
 
I think I might have a grasp having suffered from it still am, I'm not saying I have the answers, I'm just passing on what's worked for me.tryin to be of some use rather than being a no use like yerself ya bellend, hitting out with negative statements with no actual input .suck a cheesy boaby 😂

Scottish? You one of those central belt wallopers?
 
Those that actually go ahead with it are usually going through immeasurable pain, and to them, there is no other alternative. The level of ‘pain’ puts blinkers over any consideration for their loved ones future emotions. However, many actually try to make things as good as possible, for example by sorting out financial matters before they die. I’ve cared for many patients that lost a loved one to suicide and it really messes them up, but then again, the state of their loved one before death was also causing problems due to the lack of emotional presence.

The people that use threats of suicide to gain something cause more problems for everyone involved in their lives. Loved ones are broken as they believe it may happen at some point. Professionals bang their heads against the wall before calling them into their consulting room (I have done this several times 😂). But I also understand these people, who almost always have a childhood filled with horrific abuse. This trauma affects brain and emotional development leading to the adult problems.

There is no clear right or wrong with suicide. It’s a very upsetting event in anyone’s life, but there is always a reason, which to the person is a valid one and the ‘only option’ in their mind.
My wee aunty hung herself a few year's back, I never liked her for year's because she always asked how my brother was (golden boy on my da's side although they had fuck all to do with it)I don't mean bad towards my bro hes a good man an I'm mad proud of him ex royal marine and more than well quoted within his business, never asked for my other bro or my mum that annoyed me.I ended up doing some work in her house and seen a different side ,ended up doing more talking than working. She was actually cool as, ended up mad close. I seen she was hurting an she was making sure i was cool my big mate worked with her he'd dropped heart attack at 36 ruined my head.mental how thing's work.break my heart for her now and again, wish she'd just of phoned me .she done herself about a year after that.

Never do yourself,there's people to torment,don't forget that shit 👌
 
I think I might have a grasp having suffered from it still am, I'm not saying I have the answers, I'm just passing on what's worked for me.tryin to be of some use rather than being a no use like yerself ya bellend, hitting out with negative statements with no actual input .suck a cheesy boaby 😂
It was a comment not a dick. Don't take it so hard.
 
Yes it is, it’s selfish. Leaving others to pick up the pieces (depending on how it’s done obviously lol)
 
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