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Is suicide cowardly?

I think, that suicide don't remove the pain, it just move the pain from you, to your family and friends ect..
 
It’s still possible to recover from your past. Much in the same way an addict recovers from an addiction. The past can’t be changed, it has happened. We can learn from it, but also need to let it go. Nothing anyone that has been abused has experienced was their fault, even though our minds tend to feel like it was.

Accept the past has happened, tell it to fuck off, then try to let it go.

Don’t project into the future, unless it’s for a short time for practical purposes such as sorting finances etc.

Be your own parent, and re-parent your emotions. You won’t have been given the opportunity to develop emotionally while experiencing abuse.

Live in the present moment. Experiencing the ‘now’ creates consciousness. Being a slave to your minds thoughts about the past or future leads to being ‘unconscious’. You can’t stop your mind talking, but you can listen without acting upon the thoughts.

Let your shit out, like you have done here, where appropriate. Holding in negative thoughts or emotions leads to depression and poor overall mental health. Letting shit out releases it and allows the mind to enter a calmer state. Anonymous meetings are a good option for this too.

Good luck with everything. You deserve to be here, and hold your place in the universe.

A lot easier said than done.
 
I say if your gonna go why not take a few cops with ya. Odds are if you kill say 5 of them 4 and a half of them were dirty or corrupt. So the odds are in your favor. And you can feel relief in a small way that your helping the rest of man kind by ridding the world of pieces of shit cops.. any cops who say my numbers are wrong is a lier. Even they know it. That's why most don't put FOP plates and their personal vehicle. So if your gonna go out. Go out with a smile and a bang...

Just remember. You can do anything you want on your last day.

Don't give a fuck if feds see this or take a picture I don't give a fuck.
Called freedom of speech and if the constitution don't mean shit anymore what the fuck are we doing. I say Let's rock. It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel FINE 😜.
 
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Not at all. I suppose, most of suicides are committed due to mental health conditions — depression. Every day I see this pain in a loved one. And there is no cowardice in this desire, only the desire to be free from pain when medicines do not help.
 
i left the answer to that question in one of the other many threads on this subject.
but yes it is,if you do not have a mental defect. if your upset that your spouse left you and you off yourself,then yes its selfish and cowardly.
if your on meds our whole life for mental instability and do this,then id have to say no,not really. because chances are,that person stopped taking their meds and wasnt of "sound mind".
normal people dont just go and do this. only the weak. and again,its natural selection also. so if you feel like doing it,have fun. but be creative. dont jump in front of a moving vehicle or train. its not fair to the driver. or suicide by cop either. thats not right either.
 
Dosteovski talks about suicide alot. One character in his book Demons argues that its the ultimate win and hes kinda defined by this conversation. It does suck for people around you. But so does being a burden or depressed or in physical pain. People have to live for themselves.
I think people should try dropping everything and moving if you feel like that. Before they consider that option.

Demons Dostoevski- The first plot-related suicide is that of Kirillov. Kirillov is a kind of philosopher of suicide and, under questioning from several interlocutors (the narrator, Stavrogin, Pyotr Verkhovensky), expounds his ideas on the subject, mostly as it relates to him personally but also as a general phenomenon. According to him there are two types of people who commit suicide: those who do it suddenly upon being overwhelmed by an unbearable emotion, and those who do it after much thought for good reason. He thinks that everyone could fall into the latter category if it were not for two prejudices: fear of pain, and fear of the next world. "God" he says, "is the pain of the fear of death. Whoever conquers pain and fear will himself become God." In his mind he is the man who, by his own intentional death, will demonstrate to humanity the transcendence of pain and fear and free them of the need to invent God.[70]
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Without hope fear cant exist. I think is the argument.
 
i'd say that suicide is useless. doesn't matter the situation, your parents fed your ass for whenever long you lived. like imagine, you were born,raised and fed, and then your bitch ass said: "Let me make it so that my parents wasted years on end in raising me, by killing myself and still going to hell"
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Do you consider suicide to be cowardly? Ive seen such a debate on whether suicide is actually just a selfish act and cowardly or not.
I think it depends on circumstance. If a nonce was to, thats cowardice but if someone with mental health issues/depression/loss/grief - i dont think its selfish. Its tragic that it got that bad that thats the only way they see out

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people should be free to do what they want with their own bodies, no one should be forced to live against their own will, at least a free man with no strings attached like sons
 
Suicide is definitely not cowardly. In fact, it would take a lot of guts to do it. And also, you could be swimming in money and still be unhappy. This covers people who have terminal illnesses too. Consider this:

If your whole body was plagued with cancers caused by mesothelioma (the fucking WORST form of cancer) and already the death clock was ticking away, and the doctor said one option was to amputate one of your legs, but at the same time says, "there's no point, it's already jumped to somewhere else so cutting your leg off is pointless". My dad died from this totally fucking awful disease, a year from being diagnosed. My dad was born into a shit life and after his mother died, he finally realised he didn't have to try and please her anymore. He began to live. And for no reason, he got mesothelioma. He got the fucking ultimate booby prize. In the end, he was doped up to his eyeballs and was still in pain. He dreaded being showered and I made sure to never be there when he was showered, because he would scream and just hearing that even once would kill my soul, because I couldn't do ANYTHING to make him feel better, absolutely nothing. There was a compensation payout from James Hardie, but I would have traded all of it for him. I can remember getting completely stoned off my head before going to see him, but once I was in his room, seeing him slowly wasting away, It was like I hadn't smoked at all. My mind became completely clear. There was nothing that would make it any easier.

He pinpointed his encounter with asbestos when he was a teenager, exploring abandoned houses.

It blows my mind that the asbestos fibres he unknowingly inhaled laid dormant for so long, and then springing into life, eating away at his insides, jumping all over his body so quickly, so brutally.

Lastly, of all my relatives that have passed, only my grandmother was lucky. She died of a heart attack in her sleep.

So I have already decided...I would rather die than endure the suffering of a terminal disease or illness. Hopefully a heart attack in my sleep.

I would never want to become a burden to my friends and family. Watching someone waste away and not being able to do anything is the most horrible experience to endure.

So in summary, terminal illnesses, yes, I guess you could call me a coward.

I have been close to killing myself a few times in my life. I know of people I went to school with who had the world at their feet, but because they weren't perfect (one came out as gay and was disowned, he set his car on fire and SAT in it and burned alive, true unfortunately), another person who couldn't live up to his parent's expectations of him being "perfect". Hanged himself. And the sad thing is because he was tall, he raised his legs up. And his parents made out that he had died in a car accident - total bullshit. I found out years later, one of my best friends asked me if I went to his funeral. I said I didn't because I really hate funerals. His sister was dating the guy that hanged himself. My friend said, "there was no car accident. He killed himself and his parents were so ashamed that they lied."

Anyway, that's my 5 cents worth. Be nice to people, say hello to a total stranger, especially when you can see that they are trying hard to smile and be happy. Saying hello to someone may be the first time they have even heard it on the day you say it. Or a compliment. Everyone suffers in their own way but not everyone is good at pretending everything is going ok.

- peace to all you gorel lovers out there from Brad aka Dr Snuggles, in Australia -
 
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