Do you expect anything on your birthday?

[Guipago]

I like to give and not receive.

That has undertones Sweetness!

 

[Choppy]

That has undertones Sweetness!

Shhh dont tell anyone. I have a bitch image to maintain LULZ

 

[Graziani]

I want my cake

 

[D.O.A.]

I expect @TehBitch to remind me

 

[Fäthër Cörpsë]

Yes, you have a problem. Find joy where you’re at, and let ppl do nice things for you. It’s for them, anyway, just let them feel good for once.

 

[xcondeux]

No. Nothing I really want

 

[mrln]

I like to give

my birthday is today ( only kidding. but id like to have a go on what you give! )

 

[mrln]

Nope seeing as my birthday falls on one of the worse days to have a birthday I don't expect anyone to spend extra money on mine. Except for a cake I do expect a cake most times I have to make one though

you were born on April fools day?

 

[ursa]

i don't generally expect anything more than what is expected to be given for someone else. if the status quo between me and another person is that we don't do that sort of thing, then i don't care if they don't say anything. if we are usually very celebratory and open with each other then yeah maybe it'd hurt when someone forgets

 

[jewel13]

Since ive had kids I really don't give a shit about my birthday anymore. My family think I'm weird, I dont want nor expect anything anymore.

If my wife gets me anything I'll generally say 'money could be spent on the house' when I was 50 the wife laid on food, friends and family. I appreciate she did shit loads for that day and I sat there with a shitty face on me.

Do I have a problem?

Birthdays don't matter too much once you've turned 35. But....you could have tried to squeeze out a smile for those people that made your 50th a special day. Or tried to. If you didn't explicitly ask for them to do nothing that is.

Because 50 is a party and you know it, grumpy geezer you!

 

[Blood_Sport]

Presents, cards, a cake, a meal in a restaurant.. and some kind of sexual activities..

 

[BeHappy⚕️]

Expect nothing and be exceptionally grateful for anything..
I'd insist that I don't need anything, because.. I generally don't need anything and lord knows I rarely deserve anything.

But if someone does get me something, remember me or go out of their way to make the day special (happened for my last birthday, blew me away honestly, I nearly bloody cried aha, was shocked)
Then hell I'll make sure they know it was appreciated and that I'm very grateful.


Personally though.. I look forward to other people's birthdays and Christmas etc more than my own. I love getting stuff for people and baking goodies for them etc 😁
Always nice to be nice and good to be good, they'll likely enjoy things more than I do and through that I can be happy.. everyone ended up with crystal trees matching their birthsigns and custom lotus candles in their colours and scents with little stress stones and a bunch of baked goodies last year (or little tailored gift hampers) tea and biscuit gift sets, coffee gift sets all that sorta shit.
Love it

I just want music no one knows about or... warhammer so you know, I could go without what most people tend to get as pressies. A cards always nice though (sentimental weirdo me keeps all the cards I've ever had in a box...)

 

[Cold Ethyl]

you were born on April fools day?

Christmas eve just as bad 🤣

 

[IkeaPsyco]

Yes.

My husband was no fan of christmas...ive turned him. And i hope to do the same at his bday...he hates celebrating it.

I want everything on my bday 🥹🥹🥹. Party, decorations, food, guest and a big cake 😍😍😍.

 

[mrln]

i dont expect anything nor do i want anything on my bday. let alone fathers day or xmas. let alone any other day thats celebrated with gifts.
i dont like to be "in the spot light" or center of attn.

 

[hedgerow]

i dont like to be "in the spot light" or center of attn.

your post count says otherwise (jk)

 

[Amalgamation]

To be left the fuck alone

 

[mrln]

your post count says otherwise (jk)

other than my family and work,this is the most i talk to people.
(i can sit with someone,and not say a word for hours.)

 

[hedgerow]

other than my family and work,this is the most i talk to people.
(i can sit with someone,and not say a word for hours.)

wow me too...it's relaxing not to speak

 

[Mr. Meat Sled]

I was born on JFK's death day, 11/22, so every year I get a shattered skull fragment from the secret JFK death archive. And I'm happy with that.

I grew up knowing Dr. Cyril Wecht, I used to hound him as a kid about being the Pathologist that got to dissect the President after he was shot. My Nana was a Nurse with 1 Allegheny Center and was a liaison between the Offices where Wecht worked. His stories used to blow my mind.