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Serious Is suicide a "cowards way out"

A lot of long answers that I haven't read. I'll be back fur that when I'm done driving.

I think from the person who is committing it... it's finally the bravest thing they've ever done. From the outside looking in, they soft afff fur that. But most the time, we don't know what their battle was and the reason why we fell they are soft is because we always believe we could have helped them.

It's your ego vs your belief of what the other person's ego is supposed to be
 
I don't know if it was a scare tactic at a young age or just a defense mechanism when people gave it thought. But all my life I've been programmed from various angles to believe suicide is a cowards way to go... Is it really a cowards way though. All you know and experience is this life, reality. You have no idea what is next and are banking on absolutely nothing but nothing no conscious just gone, and you lose so much touch with care that you reach that point of ending it when you really don't know and going through and doing it.... In my opinion cowards wouldn't be strong enough in a sense to go through with that.

Damnit I forgot to put tags on this post I usually do. I know what it's like to look for a video and type out clearly what happens in the search and no tags cause nothing to pop up.. nobody wants to find this anyway. But I want to know what the census is in this community's
I'd say fuck no. It takes balls to end the shit. But it's a faggy way to go out, imo. We're all going to die anyway. Might as well make the most of it before clocking out.
 
When I was a kid an uncle of mine who was always thought of as a bit 'you know'.... decided to top himself, this was back in the days when you were legally allowed to have hunting weapons in the UK so he decided to go for the old classic shotgun-in-the-mouth out in his garden shed. Unfortunately he flinched at the last second and just proceeded to blow off half his jaw and face, and was found alive quickly enough to be rushed to hospital. He lived alone for many years after, admittedly looking like Mason Verger; as this was the '70s it was only ever spoken about afterwards with mockery and scorn. Even at the time I felt an odd empathy for the guy, and I was very much against the grain in never taking the piss out of him. I always thought what he tried to do must have taken courage on a scale I couldn't and still can't comprehend.

That said if you're going to do it make sure you finish the job though....
It's really difficult to make sure when you're doing it by yourself. There is a reason why in most "kill yourself" rituals in different cultures, they usually had a second person there in case they fucked up so that they didn't have to ride on the ground and die slowly over the course of hours instead, or it was communial suicide. Not all, but most.

Even when Roman soldiers would an hero by falling in their sword, the usually had some kind of witness present.

You really just need to do it by yourself at your own risk and hope you don't fuck up.
 
I don't know if it was a scare tactic at a young age or just a defense mechanism when people gave it thought. But all my life I've been programmed from various angles to believe suicide is a cowards way to go... Is it really a cowards way though. All you know and experience is this life, reality. You have no idea what is next and are banking on absolutely nothing but nothing no conscious just gone, and you lose so much touch with care that you reach that point of ending it when you really don't know and going through and doing it.... In my opinion cowards wouldn't be strong enough in a sense to go through with that.

Damnit I forgot to put tags on this post I usually do. I know what it's like to look for a video and type out clearly what happens in the search and no tags cause nothing to pop up.. nobody wants to find this anyway. But I want to know what the census is in this community's
Maybe someone else already asked this...

But are YOU ok?
 
Suicide presupposes that life must justify itself through magnitude—through decisive purpose, coherent narrative, or sustained satisfaction. This presupposition is unwarranted. Existence does not require grandeur to retain validity; it operates sufficiently at the level of minimal positive experience.

Even under conditions of dissatisfaction, life continues to furnish discrete, low-order phenomena that are intrinsically non-negative: sensory impressions, minor comforts, passing curiosities. These do not amount to meaning in any elevated sense, yet they constitute experiential value nonetheless. To terminate life is to eliminate not only suffering, but also this continuous supply of minimally sufficient goods.

The rational question, then, is not whether life achieves some overarching justification, but whether the presence of any recurring, non-zero positive experience warrants continuation. So long as such instances persist—even in trivial form—the total negation of experience is not evidently preferable.

Thus, continuation requires no appeal to hope, destiny, or fulfillment. It is adequately grounded in the mere availability of experience that is, at minimum, tolerable, and at times, incrementally preferable to nothing.

In short: as long as life occasionally produces something even mildly decent, ending it is a bit like throwing away the whole meal because some of it tastes bad—and you don’t even get to check if dessert shows up.
 
Suicide presupposes that life must justify itself through magnitude—through decisive purpose, coherent narrative, or sustained satisfaction. This presupposition is unwarranted. Existence does not require grandeur to retain validity; it operates sufficiently at the level of minimal positive experience.

Even under conditions of dissatisfaction, life continues to furnish discrete, low-order phenomena that are intrinsically non-negative: sensory impressions, minor comforts, passing curiosities. These do not amount to meaning in any elevated sense, yet they constitute experiential value nonetheless. To terminate life is to eliminate not only suffering, but also this continuous supply of minimally sufficient goods.

The rational question, then, is not whether life achieves some overarching justification, but whether the presence of any recurring, non-zero positive experience warrants continuation. So long as such instances persist—even in trivial form—the total negation of experience is not evidently preferable.

Thus, continuation requires no appeal to hope, destiny, or fulfillment. It is adequately grounded in the mere availability of experience that is, at minimum, tolerable, and at times, incrementally preferable to nothing.

In short: as long as life occasionally produces something even mildly decent, ending it is a bit like throwing away the whole meal because some of it tastes bad—and you don’t even get to check if dessert shows up.
For example; Why hit the forever snooze button when you can just get laid or mow some grass, go duck hunting or go to a theatre. Go rippin' shitties on a dirt bike. You could also rather than die decide to just go kite surfing. Idk man, sometimes you gotta love the small stuff for a while until you get over the big stuff.
 
I know the ones that go through with it, almost never talk about it and almost appear like they got it all figured out. The ones that talk about doing it a lot are usually looking for attention or sympathy. I know two people that off'd themselves and you would never guess that they would've done it, they might hint at it with heavy drinking or sad music but even then that's hard to scope out, with damn near everyone having some kind of vice.
 
Idk if it's a cowardly act, but I think it's a stupid act. If you die, you remove any possibility of experiencing joy, happiness, etc.. and the people you leave behind suffer.
People in that mindframe truly believe that they will never experience joy or happiness, which is often what leads to committing suicide. Its really easy to look at it logically and come to the conclusion that it's stupid, but that's just the thing... suicidal people aren't operating on logic. At the end of the day, suicidal ideation is mental illness, and people who are thinking this way will behave in the way you can expect mentally ill people to behave. From the outside looking in, yeah, it's stupid, but these people aren't thinking about it the way we are.
 
I see what people mean when they say "suicide is the coward's way out". I think it's pretty ballsy to try and kill yourself. Most people won't even cut themselves with a knife, but these are people who have the guts to end their life. Overriding the instinct of self preservation. With that being said, those who are unsuccessful in the attempt could make their life even worse (permanent disfiguration).
 
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