FYI Mothers Day

[ThunderCat]

You're way STRONGER than me Mate...Seriously.. I tried for years to try and get some HUMAN outta my mother after being child. She was also abusive with her hands, but mainly with her mouth. Everything was always MY fault, or i was the.one that messed up HER life..
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Ummmmm...What about me when u were hitting me full on on the back to wake me for school when i was 8...Plus loads of other physical abuse.
I gave up when my dad past away. The ONLY reason i spoke to her was cos of him.

You must be careful if she has messed u up..Anything can be ignored but it has some fucked up consequences on our brains for life and ANYTHING can be a trigger once our brains can't ignore it anymore.
You have to think about YOUR mental health and how this has effected you. In which u most likely have. I also did but i came to the conclusion that i need to keep away from that Toxic nasty narc....

Anyway...
HOPE YOU ALL HAD A WONDERFUL mothers day. Those that had it or have it...

 

[Nobbler]

I normally take my mum out, let her choose where, thats why I end up in theaters watching the lion king on stage and other weird stuff, she is cool though I get on well with my parents. Reading threads like this makes me appreciate them even more.
Maybe an abusive parent moans on about themselves because they feel guilty, trying to say look I am suffering too. Surely they must look back and feel bad about it.

 

[lechmich]

Cunts generally are just perpetuating what was done to them growing up. By realising this and making yourself a better person i.e. stopping the epigenetic link, you are benefiting you and yours in immeasurable ways. Forgive, counter cuntery with nobility and you will live your best self without the burden of resentment...

 

[Solomon Kane]

Today was Mothers Day here in Melbourne Australia.
For people that haven't yet heard my shit life story here or known me before I existed here on this site ... my feelings about my own mother are questionable.
I met up with her today.
I am proud of myself for being able to identify when I am triggered and to instantly put the wall up and make benign comments - and remain calm as fuck.
Long story short - (for the uninformed) .. my sister and I were abused to all fuckery by our Mum when we were little ...then she got massive financial benefits
from a sicko Pedo ...and I stop sharing my shit after that part ....
I nearly killed my own mum a couple of times and my sister pulled me back ..... but we get together occasionally and talk about how if I had just lost my shit ... and if I got sent to jail ... I would have been out by now anyway. even in the worst case scenario.
Anyhoo .. I met up with Mum today .... did the whole "Happy Mothers day" thingy .. sat and listened to her bitch and moan about her life ... her neighbors .. her grand daughter (my daughter!) .... her life in general ... and how life basically sucks. ...
I was driving home ... kinda relaxed ... realizing it was one of the first times in history that I was able to allow myself to let all that emotional bullshit just roll off my back.
My sister gave up on her years ago and says to me not to have anything to do with her ... but my weirdy concience tells me to forgive pains and all that stuff.
In some ways I feel like an idiot ... but it kind of makes me feel stronger to be in the presence of a horrible person who abused me as a kid and hold my head up unaffected - than to hide away and avoid a visit ... just cos everything kinda feels uncomfortable.
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Point of my post .....

Does "Mothers Day" .... "Birthdays" .... other "Days" make you feel unfairly obliged to participate in being nice to people you honestly feel are CUNTS?
It would be helpful to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.

Why the fuck are you still in contact with that cunt and even more, calling her Mum"
WTF Dude..